When distributing money, if some of the relatives who do not inherit, or the orphans or the needy attend, then give them from it.

وَقُولُواْ لَهُمْ قَوْلاً مَّعْرُوفًا {and speak to them words of appropriate kindness.}: It is not enough to give from the money that Allah (swt) gave you, especially the money of the inheritance, but you must accompany this money that you give with the kind saying, the spender must not follow his charity with harm.